I wrote this blog post for the curious people who want to know what a cord cutting session is like. It’s also for those who have booked a cord cutting so they know a bit about what to expect.
Cord-cutting sessions are very different from a reading. (For a start, unlike in a psychic reading, we do not involve Spirit Guides or other astral-level beings in a cord-cutting session.
So here’s what happens when you book a cord-cutting. Please note that this is a summary for the purposes of the curious reader or the client who has already booked a session. I don’t include all details of the cord-cutting session in here – just enough so that you can familiarize yourself with the process.
Setting Your Intention
At the start of the session, I ask you for your intention – one way in which you’d like your life to be different or better through this session. That way, you are in control of your healing. Here are some examples of intentions you could bring to the session:
• I want to increase my self-confidence
• I want to have better boundaries and feel comfortable with saying ‘no’ to people
• I want to improve my relationship with so-and-so
• I want to let go of a past relationship with so-and-so
Creating A Sacred Space
Next, we create a sacred space. For it to be a sacred space, you preferably should be alone in the room (it’s better to leave the dog or cat outside of the room) and at that point the client chooses a ‘Divine being’ to bring the healing energy of a session. Obviously it isn’t me who heals a client, it’s the Divine being who’s in charge of the session.
What’s A Divine Being?
Divine beings are ascended masters, deities, Goddesses and archangels. Some examples: Ascended master Jesus, Ascended master Buddha, Mother Mary, Saint Germain, Krishna, Ganesh, Quan Yin, Athena, St Francis, Merlin. They are also the Archangels such as Archangel Raphael, who brings healing and Archangel Gabriel, who
facilitates communication. Another favourite is Archangel Michael who protects and removes things you no longer want or need. Of course, you can even call on God for the session, otherwise known as the cosmic intelligence, the creator of all beings, Source or the Great Spirit.Once we’ve summoned the Divine being and created a sacred space by asking for protection and cleansing through violet flames and Divine support for the client’s aura, we decide who to cut cords with.
Who To Cut Cords With?
Sometimes clients already know who they want to cut a cord with, and I check we have Divine permission to do this. Occasionally we can be refused permission to cut a cord (for example, if the client would go through a significant healing crisis by cutting the cord, then permission would not be given.)
The Divine beings have the client’s wellbeing in mind. But a scenario like that is fairly rare.
Occasionally I may find that a client needs to remove some astral debris from their aura before we can go ahead and cut a cord. So, if you book an aura healing session with me, you do need to be prepared for this possibility – I may instead suggest we use your session time for removing astral debris. Then if you wish you can book another session to remove the cord of attachment you had in mind. This does not happen often but can occur, so please bear that in mind when booking.
Back to the cord cutting process. Presuming that we have Divine permission to go ahead and cut a cord, here’s what happens next…
Sometimes clients are not sure who to cut cords with, but they have a few ideas. What I can do is check which cord, if cut, might help to bring about that intention they set. Sometimes we find out which is the most toxic, but I always leave it up to the client to decide which cord to cut.
If you are getting a session with me, you want to be cutting a major cord of attachment in the session (to make it worth your while).
Who Do We Normally Have Big Cords of Attachment To?
– Those who have hurt you with violence or abuse of some form
– Those involved with you (or those who caused for you) a major accident or trauma
– Biological parents (if you happen to be adopted)
– Sexual partners involved in conceiving a child
– The person with whom you lost your virginity
– Ex-lovers you lived with or ex-spouses
– Childhood friends
– Spiritual teachers, healers or therapists who influenced you negatively
– Cult leaders
– Bullies from childhood (or adulthood)
– Extremely difficult employers, employees, co-workers or clients
Let’s say the client has decided to cut the cord to an ex-boyfriend.
Next, I take a look at the client’s chakra system to see which chakras are most affected by the cord this client has to her ex. There are usually 2-3 chakras that we focus on for the healing, and I describe to the client what I can see there and how the cord is affecting her.
Where Is The Cord?
Next, we find out where the cord is on the client’s body, for the purposes of cutting it.
Now I ask the client to read out a permission statement, giving the Divine being (and me) permission to cut the cord. This is like a spiritual contract and it is needed in order for the healing to happen.
Cutting The Cord
Then the cord cutting happens along with the help of the Divine being. And the cord goes into the violet flame that we set up, one in every corner of the room, when we created the sacred space.
Putting On The Bandage
In order to rebalance, we put a bandage on the client’s aura, where the cord came out. It is necessary to fill that space where the cord came out.
I find out how long the bandage needs to be on and the client chooses some positive energetic qualities to go into that bandage and into her energy field. Then the bandage is put into place by the divine being.
Finding Out More About The Dynamics in The Cord
Within a cord of attachment, there are negative patterns of behaviour, thought and emotion that circulate in the cord, back and forth between the two people, 24/7. This part of the session is for finding out which energies are present in the cord.
It might be things like:
Abigail: You never listen to me
Ex-boyfriend: You can never give me enough.
It usually takes between 5 and 10 minutes for me to retrieve all the dynamics within a cord, then I read it out to the client. There is quite a lot of detail in there. This can be very validating to hear what was in the cord, because those patterns circulate back and forth between the client and the cordee and can affect the relationship and the client’s emotions, personal power and mental clarity (amongst other things).
The patterns within a cord do not even need to be the dominant things of the relationship. They are not the whole story about the relationship or everything about the client or the cordee. Sometimes they can even be thoughts and emotions from one single event, which have got stuck in the cord at some point.
The cord patterns can be likened to an intravenous drip. In Abigail’s case, the drip has the label ‘my ex-boyfriend Alex’ on it and that drop goes into her system bit by bit, 24/7. Subtle but harmful, because the substances are toxic.
Once those patterns are no longer flowing into the client’s aura, we talk about how they were affecting her and we discuss the question of what can change now that the cord is cut. Depending on the client, this can take 5 minutes or 10 minutes or longer.
Book with me or any other trained professional!! Stay blessed.. xoxox -Stregga