3/25/1934 – 03/31/1970
My Mother and BFF (Best Friend Forever)
12/12/1934 – 8/24/2015
I will be taking the day to do a ritual honoring them and to spend time walking down memory lane. My dad crossed one month before my twelfth birthday. My mom crossed not long after my fifty-seventh birthday. I consider every moment I had with them both in good times and bad to now be precious minutes of my life if only I could have seen it this way when they were still in their just past lifetimes I would have spent more time with them.
I hope through different periods of mediation and/or naps to be able to speak with them again and maybe even find myself a sightseer at another family gathering. I did this on my dad’s birthday in a dream.
What I mean by “sightseer” is seeing my family laughing, playing and enjoying one another than sitting down to a big feast in the Summerlands. I was shown by my mom that there is a place for me at the table but I will not be joining them for quite a while yet as my work, joy and laughter are not done yet.
I will not be answering any emails, texts, Skype or phone calls today.